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1 Lesbian Marriage & 10 Most Common Homophobic Questions (with Answers)

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How often do you go online to see a real-life lesbian marriage? How often do you search online for the presence of the LGBTQ community? How often do you notice homophobia in your day-to-day life? How often do you encounter homophobic questions in your day-to-day life? Actually, all these questions started hitting my mind very recently when I was watching a lesbian marriage video on YouTube. That was a viral video where two young Bengali women were getting married following Bengali rituals and customs. 

Now, I have a bad habit and that is browsing through the comment section of every video I watch on YouTube. And, as we all know, old habits die hard. Therefore, I could not resist checking out the comments on this video. In my observations, along with best wishes, I saw that many YouTube users had made homophobic remarks—more precisely I noticed numerous ‘homophobic questions’ on their lesbian marriage life. As I scrolled through I was able to detect the 10 most common homophobic questions among those comments, and I’ve decided to answer all of them by myself.

1. “What kind of future a girl can have with another girl or a man with another man?”

Ans. The exact similar kind of future, with the similar pros and cons, that a man can have with ‘another woman’ or a woman can have with ‘another man’. Nothing unique about it. A lesbian married life is not going to be unique by any means. They are going to have their own ups and downs and that would not be unique by any means.

2. “What would they ‘do’ together?”

Ans. The intention of that question is extremely demeaning, and should not be directed to any person! I am not going to stoop that low. I just have one sentence for the people asking this question, and that is “That’s none of your business”.

3. “Can they have kids?”

Ans. Even every heterosexual couple on this planet can’t be guaranteed that they will have kids! Since, heterosexuality is not the only condition for having a child.

In my life, I have seen many childless heterosexual couples and they are living happily. For many couples, it was a part of their well-thought-out future plan to not have a child and living lives on their own terms. On the contrary, in this modern era, if a same-sex couple wants to have kids, they can have it by many ways (thanks to science). Modern science is developing many ways to give child to the childless couples irrespective of their sexual orientation. 

Having children is a very personal decision that only the concerned couple should take by themselves without any interference from society. I actually believe this rule is applicable to every couple irrespective of their sexual orientation. Unfortunately, our society can’t help poking their noses into the lives of even heterosexual couples, which is extremely rude.

4. “Would society accept them?”

Ans. I am sure society is changing pretty fast and one day they will change their mindset towards homosexuality as well. That change might not come in one year or 10 years. But, gradually, it will come.

5. “Don’t you think it’s against our culture and religion?”

Ans. It was one of the most common questions of that lesbian marriage. Are you talking about Hinduism? Multiple prominent ancient Hindu texts like the Kama Sutra and Padma Purana, among others, mention the presence of homosexuality in society. In Hinduism, there was, traditionally and historically, a certain level of tolerance for homosexuality and it never denied the existence of ‘sexual minorities’ (as we call them today) in Indian society.

However, issue presently there are 4000+ known religions on this planet and thousands of unrecognized religions as well. Therefore, drawing conclusions via the route of religion would be a disastrous slippery slope.

On the other hand, let alone humans, homosexuality is common in many non-human species as well and scientists are finding new pieces of evidence even in modern days. That means homosexuality is a part of nature. If it’s a part of nature then we possibly can’t deny the fact that it is also a part of the culture. It has been right from the beginning.

6. “If everyone becomes homosexuals then who would procreate and what will be our future as species?”

Ans. Everyone isn’t going to become “a homosexual”. Throughout the history of humankind, there have been gay people and straight people. So, unless a gay zombie virus attacks the human race and changes everyone’s sexual orientation overnight, there’s nothing to worry about.

7. “Are we going to face ‘Qayamat’ (apocalypse) in near future?”

Ans. No, we are not. The union of two consenting adults is never going to bring ‘Qayamat’. Look around you, if war, rape, genocide, corruption, violence against women and children, the mass destruction of flora and fauna are not bringing ‘Qayamat‘ then gay marriage or lesbian marriage would also not going to bring apocalypse.

8. “Don’t you think that, it is a modern mental health crisis?”

Ans. In December 1973, the American Psychiatric Association removed homosexuality from the list of mental illnesses in the DSM-III. It’s not a mental health issue and that is a scientifically proven fact.

9. “If a girl can have sex with another girl then why not with an animal?”

Ans. Homosexuality and beastiality are two absolutely different things. Any sexual act is normal as long as it’s happening between two consenting adults. As far as I know, we can’t understand the language animals speak, hence it’s not possible to obtain their consent. If a person goes after an animal with sexual intent, it’s animal abuse in the same way that sex without consent is consider as r@pe.

10. “Don’t you think that they can change their choice?”

Ans. Homosexuality is not a choice. Nobody chooses to be a homosexual just as nobody chooses to be heterosexual. People mentally wired to be the way they are, sexual orientation included. The harsh reality is with modern science you can change your complexion but can not change your sexual orientation.

In this article, I have tried to answer the 10 most intriguing questions I’ve seen online, and I am sure there are many more homophobic questions roaming out there waiting to be answered. Well, I’ll be ready to answer those questions as well. 

My request to you please read the article and if you think it’s worth discussing then please like, comment, and share the article among our community members. Meanwhile, you can also participate in various programs we have designed for the LGBTQ community on our platform.

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How To Get Rid of Homosexuality?

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How to get rid of homosexuality? Yes, I can understand, perhaps one of the most difficult things in this world is accepting your own sexual orientation. It’s more important when you’re not straight, and it’s significantly difficult when you live in a homophobic society.

Thanks to social media, the awareness level has increased by manifold within a very short span of time. However, the harsh reality is that as a society we are still homophobic, and making jokes about homosexuality is as common as it is considered acceptable in our society. Personally, I feel ashamed when I see my fellow social workers (who are extremely vocal about the movement in public) show the same level of insensitivity towards queers  in private. 

Under such circumstances, there are many who try to ‘get rid of homosexuality’ following ridiculous suggestions acquired from various sources; and, according to me, those are not as effective. However, the most effective methods that I am going to suggest to you all are tested methods. Therefore, you can test these methods by yourself. However, I am not going to give any assurance regarding the success probabilities of these methods.

1. "Just Pretend You Are Not A Homosexual!"

The very first thing you can do is “just pretend you are straight”. They want you to do this not only in front of others; you have to learn the critical art of pretending to yourself. 

Now, it might sounds like a very effective method; but, it’s really short-term process of fixing up an issue. Eventually, you are going to accept the real ‘YOU’ that lives inside you. After all how long someone can lie to themselves?

2. "Insult Homosexuals!"

One of my client was bullied by her female cousin in her early 20s when she was struggling with her own sexual orientation. Her cousin used to whisper in her ear “LESBIANNNN” to make her uncomfortable during different family reunions.

I asked her, “Why did you share your personal feelings with someone who is not a trustworthy person at all?”

Her reply baffled me. She said her cousin had opened up about her own attraction to her (my client) first and so my client felt comfortable enough to open up as well. Later this cousin got involved with a man and tied the knot. Post her marriage the cousin thought she had the right to mock my client because marriage had ‘cured’ her sexual orientation.

However, that method was also short-lived; because, after 10 years of marriage, her cousin suddenly wanted to rekindle their relationship. Suddenly she was pretty supportive of the entire LGBTQ+ community. Now, what was the reason for that sudden change? Well, my client’s cousin realized she could not lie to herself or her husband anymore about her true sexual orientation. Presently, she is carrying the coffin of their marriage all alone.

3. "Date Someone of the Opposite Sex!"

Yes, thanks to societal pressure, many people who are attracted to the same sex (including bisexual and pansexual people) do date people of the opposite sex just to avoid revealing the truth. 

Now, the most adverse reality of dating like this is you are involving another person in your own mess. Continue the charade, and you will either have to get married or break someone else’s heart. I don’t know which one is more ‘convenient’.

4. "You Need A Psychologist!"

A pseudo-modern society will ask you to attend regular counselling sessions just to “cure” yourself. Personally, I know someone who went to a psychologist in her early 20’s to ‘change her sexual orientation’ and she was paying ₹1500 for each session. That counsellor promised her he could and would change her sexual orientation. There were many sessions. And guess what? She is in a live-in relationship with another girl and both of them are doing pretty well. Now all she wants is a refund from that psychologist.

5. "Go Consult A Psychiatrist!"

I can remember at least two incidents where a few clients of mine were so determined to deny their sexual orientation that, they even consulted a psychiatrist for medication. Yes. they did this to themselves.

Luckily the psychiatrist sent them to a psychologist, and after proper counselling, they were able to accept the truth. Presently, they are living much more peaceful lives with their inner truth. Yes, with their inner truth!

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6. "You'll Be Cured If You Get Married!"

The most convenient step to ‘get rid of homosexuality’, is getting married.  Since, after marriage, no one will bother about your homosexuality.

I am not against that option but if you have to marry, then maybe marrying someone within the queer community will at least assure your safety in the bedroom. Of course, it does not mean you are immune to social pressure. After marriage, the next pressure your family will put on you is children!

7. "Have Babies!"

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Recently, one of my clients informed me that she is planning for a baby. Exactly two years back, she got married under family pressure and that was a ‘Marriage of Convenience’. In popular culture we prefer to call it as MOC. 

For her own convenience she chose a gay bottom as her husband. According to her own consideration, since her would be husband is a gay man, therefore she is confident about her own ‘safety’. Back then in order to silence her family marrying a ‘bottom gay’ was the most convenient path for her (a top lesbian). 

However, now after two years of marriage, under social pressure, she is planning to have a baby. She is not alone. I have heard of many such scenarios where it seems ‘convenient’ for a while.

Once you have a baby, then homophobic society will say, “CONGRATULATIONS! Finally, you got rid of your homosexuality!”

Well, actually you’ll have to suppress your sexual orientation for the sake of your children at least for the next twenty-five years. You have to live this lie now many more years to come. This type of marriage of convenience in the LGBTQ community is a reality.

8. "Avoid Life!"

Sometimes family pressure can hit the roof, and then ‘home sweet home’ can turn into a metaphorical ‘gas chamber’.

I recall the story of two individuals who found an ingenious way to avoid the family crisis, and that is to roam the city till midnight, spending as little time as possible at home. Now, I am not sure whether you can change the status of your sexual orientation by following that way; but, I am sure you will definitely change the status of your health and safety. Sadly, you will be put in a situation where you have to choose which one is more important for you. Your life or this society?

I have seen many such community members who jumped into an ocean of all kinds of addictive substances just to ‘get rid of’ homosexuality. I don’t know either about the success ratio of that method as well, however, by following this method you’re sure to get rid of your life this way. No life, no tension of sexual orientation. No more question – “How to get rid of homosexuality?”

 

Recently a client of mine told me about a new drug that she has been taking. She introduced that drug to me as the ‘younger brother of Cocaine’. I was shocked and unable to comprehend this ‘escape route’.

The pressure to ‘be normal’ can become so much, and I have witnessed many such instances where queer people have, as a result, attempted to take their own lives. If you succeed in your attempt, then you shatter your near and dear ones. And if you don’t then you have to face everyone around you for the rest of your life. I don’t know which one is worse.

Our society can be so insensitive it can extract fun out of anyone’s misery. One woman I knew, attempted suicide by consuming phenyl. Overnight, people started to call her ‘Phenyl Aunty’. Yes, this is our society.

I am sure you have a fertile brain and you can come up with some more unique ideas. Therefore, I would urge you to come up with some ingenious ideas. If you feel that blog is worth reading then please like, share, and comment on the blog on the different social media platforms. 

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How to Arrange Online Events for the Closeted LGBTQ Members?

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How to arrange safe online events for the LGBTQ community. That question strikes my mind when one of my clients asked me the same question. Actually, she was a closeted lesbian in a very prominent social position. Despite that, she wanted to be in a society where she would be comfortable in herself. Yes, socialization is a very basic need, and that need should not be avoided. Since mental health-related issues are rampant among the LGBTQ community, and, I have noticed loneliness is one of the basic reasons behind that. I have created a group on Facebook to provide free counseling sessions to queer people.

So far, a large number of the community members are closeted individuals who are not prepared to come out yet, fearing it might put their lives and livelihood in jeopardy. Though I am not surprised about their life choice. However, when a few persons asked me to act as a matchmaker. Initially, I was annoyed, because that was not my objective; but, I couldn’t deny the fact that it is also a part of our basic needs. And if loneliness is the reason behind their depression, then I believe any amount of counseling would not change things even a bit.

1. Begin With Online Meetup Events:

Initially, I advised people to join various social events organized by prominent LGBTQ NGOs. I had this idea that the best place to interact with someone from the community (even get hitched) would be at one of these events. However, this was a problem for closeted members of the community. Visiting any widely publicized public event can harm their personal and professional lives because of the same rampant homophobia I mentioned earlier. Meanwhile, everyone of us have every right to be around like-minded people.

Instead of the in-person meetups, we will start our ice-breaking sessions via online  events. The specialty of these meetup events would be the right to anonymity. Therefore, when applying for these events on our site then you can hide your real identities. You can use our platform, without compromising your privacy. 

These events are designed to know each other in the safest environment. Let’s break the ice first. Meet people you want to be with and then decide the next course of action. From here you can move to your private chat section and let’s proceed further.

2. Freedom To Anonymity During Online Events:

It is difficult to accumulate the necessary courage you need to fight against a social menace like homophobia. Throughout human history, the eradication of social taboos has always remained a gradual process. Therefore, the entire LGBTQ community cannot just surface in public one fine morning and expect a rainbow colored society. It will take many more years and relevant support from society.

Yes, you can hide your real identity during these online events. You can choose to participate in multiple online events. You will be encouraged to not disclose sensitive personal information to a stranger instantly online. It should be a slow process of knowing each other first. Sharing personal photos in compromising positions is a strict no-no. In fact, I believe that should not be done at any stage of the relationship because these images can serve as a boomerang if a relationship falls apart.

3. Indoor Events and Outdoor Activities:

Since we are inherently social animals, a sense of community is another basic need for all of us. LGBTQ people ought to have a community space where they don’t have to pretend to be something juxtaposed with their original character. 

Organizing regular indoor meetup sessions and outdoor activities could be great ways for socializing and arranging such events regularly can become great stress-busters for us! We will be arranging both indoor meetups and outdoor activities.

4. Rules for Participation in In-person Events:

Only the registered person would get the details of the event via emails and private chat. Registered group members would not be allowed to bring any unregistered person as companions with them since it can cause discomfort to others. 

Unlike other organized activities, whether indoor or not, displaying indicative banners or promotional materials might grab unwanted curiosity towards the event. We understand this is something a queer person wants to stay away from. Therefore, we would not use any such indicative banners.  Apart from that, the photographs of these events would not get published on any of our social media platforms or on our websites. 

5. Sexual Orientation Is Not Written On Anyone’s Face:

At the end of the day, the truth is this: A person’s sexual orientation is not written on their forehead. Therefore, after all these precautions it would be extremely difficult for someone to exploit any LGBTQ person and blackmail them or others around them. 

Above all, we should have faith in an individual’s own common sense and not ignore their own intuition about another person. Despite all possible challenges, a genuine meetup platform for LGBTQ community members is absolutely inevitable.

Many community members I interacted with asked me how to ensure the confidentiality of closeted group members? “What if someone sneaks into the group,” they wanted to know, “and start blackmailing other group members?” After careful consideration of every possible aspect, I could not deny the need for authentic online events especially dedicated exclusively to closeted LGBTQ community members. There need to be a code of conduct—or golden rules—for developing online events. In Smiling Rainbow, we will be following all those golden rules of the LGBTQ online events. 

That is why we have created that platform for the member of LGBTQ community. Our initiative is intended for you and only your participation can make it a success. Hence, my request to you all is to please like, share, and comment on our content on every social media platform, and, spread our initiative among your personal network.

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Power of Good Habits: Learn About The Best Antidepressant For Anxiety And Depression

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Do you know the power of good habits? Learn about the best antidepressant for anxiety and depression. In the battle against anxiety and depression, finding effective strategies beyond medication and therapy can be transformative. Such potent weapons lies within our daily habits. From the way we move to the thoughts we nurture, these habits wield immense power in influencing our mental well-being. 

Let’s delve into the science-backed habits that act as natural and best antidepressants for anxiety and depression. For your convenience, we are offering relevant examples of our callers who have developed hope and resilience in the face of anxiety and depression by changing their lifestyles. Here we will be discussing about four best antidepressant for anxiety and depression.

Exercise:

Research from Harvard Medical School indicates that regular exercise is not only beneficial for physical health but also acts as a powerful mood booster. It is one of the best antidepressant for anxiety and depression. Studies have shown that exercise stimulates the production of endorphins, neurotransmitters that alleviate pain and enhance mood, leading to a reduction in symptoms of anxiety and depression. Exercise is not only about sculpting our bodies; it also has profound effects on our mental health. 

Beyond the release of endorphins, exercise promotes neuroplasticity, the brain’s ability to adapt and rewire itself. Studies have shown that regular physical activity can increase the volume of certain brain regions involved in emotional regulation, such as the hippocampus. This neurogenesis may contribute to the antidepressant effects of exercise.

Many case studies have highlighted individuals who experienced significant improvements in their mental health by incorporating consistent exercise routines into their daily lives. One of our callers Sunanda (name changed), a busy corporate professional, in her mid-30s struggled with persistent anxiety. Upon incorporating regular exercise into her routine, she noticed a significant reduction in her symptoms. Not only did she feel more energized and focused, but she also experienced a newfound sense of calm and resilience in the face of stressors.

Mindfulness and Meditation:

Recent studies, including research published in JAMA Psychiatry, suggest that mindfulness-based interventions can be effective in reducing symptoms of anxiety and depression. Practicing mindfulness and meditation helps individuals develop greater self-awareness and acceptance, fostering resilience in the face of stressors. 

Mindfulness practices, such as meditation and deep breathing exercises, offer powerful tools for managing anxiety and depression. By directing our attention to the present moment without judgment, mindfulness cultivates a state of heightened awareness and acceptance. Neuroimaging studies have revealed changes in mindfulness-related brain activity, including reduced activity in the amygdala, the brain’s fear center, and increased connectivity in regions linked to emotion regulation.

Many case studies demonstrate how regular mindfulness practice has enabled individuals to manage their anxiety and depression more effectively, leading to enhanced overall well-being. Mohit (name changed), in his early 30s, struggled with chronic depression, feeling overwhelmed by negative thoughts and emotions. Through consistent mindfulness practice, he learned to observe his thoughts without getting entangled. Over time, he noticed a gradual shift in his mindset, experiencing greater peace and contentment in his daily life.

Adequate Sleep:

The National Sleep Foundation reports that insufficient sleep is closely linked to an increased risk of developing anxiety and depression. New research findings emphasize the importance of maintaining a consistent sleep schedule and prioritizing quality sleep for mental well-being. 

Sleep plays a crucial role in regulating our mood and emotional well-being. During sleep, the brain processes emotions and consolidates memories, essential functions for mental health. Disrupted sleep patterns, such as insomnia or poor sleep quality, have been linked to an increased risk of anxiety and depression. Prioritizing sleep hygiene practices, such as maintaining a consistent sleep schedule and creating a relaxing bedtime routine, is vital for promoting restorative sleep.

Many case studies illustrate how improving sleep hygiene and prioritizing adequate rest have led to significant improvements in mood and overall mental health. Joy (name changed), in his early 30s, struggled with insomnia for years, which exacerbated his symptoms of depression. By implementing sleep hygiene strategies recommended by his therapist, such as limiting screen time before bed and creating a comfortable sleep environment. After following all the suggestions by our experts Joy experienced significant improvements in his sleep quality and overall mood.

Social Connection:

Studies show that social isolation and loneliness can exacerbate symptoms of anxiety and depression, while strong social connections offer a protective effect. Engaging in meaningful social interactions, whether in person or virtually, can provide emotional support and reduce feelings of loneliness. Human beings are inherently social creatures, wired for connection and belonging. 

Strong social connections provide a buffer against stress and adversity, fostering resilience in the face of challenges. Studies have shown that social support can reduce cortisol levels, the body’s stress hormone, and promote the release of oxytocin, the “love hormone” associated with bonding and trust. Whether through spending time with loved ones, participating in group activities, or seeking support from online communities, nurturing meaningful relationships is essential for mental well-being.

Many case studies highlight the transformative impact of nurturing supportive relationships and building strong social networks in overcoming anxiety and depression. Monami (name changed), in his early 30s, felt isolated and alone after relocating to a new city. Through joining interesting meetup groups and reaching out to like-minded individuals online, she gradually built a supportive network of friends who shared her interests and values. These connections provided her with a sense of belonging and companionship, alleviating feelings of loneliness and bolstering her resilience against anxiety and depression.

It was the four best antidepressant for the anxiety and depressant. By incorporating these practices into our lives, we tap into their therapeutic benefits to alleviate anxiety and depression symptoms, fostering our overall wellness. From exercise’s profound impact on brain function to mindfulness’s transformative effects and sleep’s restorative abilities, each habit provides a pathway to resilience and rejuvenation. Let’s acknowledge that even small changes can lead to significant improvements in mental health, guiding us toward a more fulfilling future, supplemented by attending affordable online counseling sessions.

As we navigate the intricate landscapes of anxiety and depression, integrating these habits into our daily routines emerges as powerful aids in our pursuit of mental well-being. From the simple act of physical movement to the cultivation of mindfulness, each habit possesses the potential to elevate our spirits and offer comfort amidst life’s challenges. Embrace these habits as natural complements to seeking help from mental health counselors and psychiatrists, lighting the way toward a brighter tomorrow.

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Why Affordable Legal Counseling For LGBTQ Community Is So Important?

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Based on our experience, we have seen the legal counseling need among LGBTQ community members is very formidable. Based on that experience we have noticed the distress calls from LGBTQ community members are increasing day after day. Every week we receive at least 2 – 3 calls from the callers. These callers are seeking legal counseling and many of them have serious need of a legal counselor.

The members of the LGBTQ community experience different levels of abuse and trauma; that require special attention from legal counsel. The abuses of the LGBTQ community members include (but are not limited to) are as mentioned below: 

Emotional Abuse:

Members of the LGBTQ community in India often face emotional abuse manifested through rejection, discrimination, and isolation from family, friends, and society. We have observed that constant invalidation of their identities, ridicule, and derogatory remarks contribute to their emotional distress. Additionally, the lack of legal protection exacerbates their vulnerability. That emotional vulnerability leads to anxiety, depression, and low self-esteem. This pervasive emotional abuse undermines their sense of belonging. It also perpetuates a cycle of internalized shame and self-doubt. That constant self-doubt impedes their ability to live authentically and thrive.

Physical Abuse:

Physical abuse against the LGBTQ community in India includes acts of violence such as assault, rape, and corrective rape. Corrective rape is a form of forced physical relation aimed at “curing” their sexual orientation or gender identity. This abuse extends to forced marriages, honor killings, and conversion therapy. In reality, all of these can result in severe physical harm. Public attacks, including beatings and mob violence, are also prevalent, often fueled by prejudice and hatred. Moreover, authorities may turn a blind eye to these crimes, perpetuating a culture of impunity. These daily threats of physical harm create a constant state of fear and vulnerability for LGBTQ individuals, hindering their freedom and safety.

Sexual Harassment:

Members of the LGBTQ community in India encounter sexual harassment in various forms, including unwanted advances, groping, and verbal abuse. Workplace discrimination often takes the form of inappropriate comments, unwelcome touching, or the denial of job opportunities due to their sexual orientation or gender identity. Additionally, they face harassment in public spaces, such as streets and public transportation, where they may be subjected to catcalling, leering, and sexual assault. Fear of reprisal or further discrimination often silences victims, perpetuating a cycle of harassment and injustice that undermines their sense of safety and dignity in their day-to-day lives.

Economic Exploitation:

The LGBTQ community in India frequently experiences economic exploitation through workplace discrimination, unequal pay, and job insecurity. Many face barriers to employment due to prejudice, leading to limited job opportunities and lower wages compared to their heterosexual counterparts. Transgender individuals, in particular, often struggle to find stable employment and are relegated to low-paying, informal sectors of the economy. Moreover, they may face discrimination in accessing financial services such as loans and housing, further exacerbating their economic vulnerability. This systemic exploitation perpetuates cycles of poverty and marginalization within the LGBTQ community, hindering their economic stability and upward mobility.

How can you get our affordable legal services?

On many occasions, situations can get so out of control that only legal counseling from a seasoned lawyer can save someone’s life or reputation. This is the reason we have introduced our legal counseling platform One method would be addressing all the common questions via our YouTube Channel. On the other hand, the second method would be connecting you with affordable legal services. Here you would interact with the legal counselor directly via phone or online. 

Your identity would not be compromised and the beauty of that system is we don’t get to store any of your personal information. As of now, you can ask questions in two languages and these are English and Hindi. Presently, we are looking forward to supporting more diverse languages in the future. We are requesting you, please don’t contact us on behalf of ‘someone else’. A few ‘well-wishers’ out there try to abuse that service and create an unnecessary disturbance. Our request to all of them is, that legal counseling is a paid service. 

This is our platform and we can make it a success by spreading it like wildfire among LGBTQ community members. Our sincere request to you all please support the platform by raising your questions and queries. Apart from that, you can also promote the Smiling Rainbow LGBTQ Counseling platform among the members of the LGBTQ community. You can write your queries in to aimbee@resourceowls.in or call 917890893166 to book an appointment. Please don’t send your query via social media or WhatsApp for legal counseling.